Miseries Partner

We all have problems and they aren't fun to deal with. There are somethings that happen that you feel like you just can't tell anyone because they wouldn't understand. With this comes sadness, depression, misery, loneliness. It's hard to deal with a lot of times you have no one to confide in and you just can't get anything off your chest. But the human brain and heart doesn't like to be alone so you unconsciously talk and act negatively to stop being alone, you want people to be with you, it doesn't help, and you shouldn't do it. Let's talk about why.

Now why does the human brain make you so negative when you're sad, such a pessimist? Well I can't tell you the science because I'm not a psychologist, but I can assume that this isn't scientific, the human brain and heart are not things that can be explained by science. They are so complex and hard to understand. Lol I'm going down a rabbit hole back to the topic. The brain and heart want people to be with you, we want friends and acquaintances, just people to confide in and smile with. Like when you hang out with friends then go home and feel like there's nothing to do anymore and all your adrenaline is just gone. This isn't a bad thing at all we need human interaction and social media is a result of this. People argue that it's killing social interaction but no, maybe you watch a youtube video instead of take a stroll outside then and there but it's not killing society. But humans need others we wouldn't be anywhere if we didn't. People that are lonely do things for attention they act up, from being disrespectful in class and loud to more extreme things like cutting themselves. Humans want other people weather they say it or don't they want others, and yes when we're sad we make others sad so we have someone with us. I can say this from experience for three years I've done this and now I don't, but I made people sad like I was so I didn't feel as lonely and had other people with me, but this is what I realized.

Even after going three years being a jerk wad to people, I didn't feel any better and at this point I used my brain and realized that it doesn't help. All it does it put people in their own cage of loneliness and sadness and start spreading more negativity, it sucks and gets you nowhere. People become sad because of you don't be that one to start it and get everyone screwed that makes everyone lonely and doesn't help you what so ever. So how do you get better?

Don't make other people sad. But how does that help me get better? Well of course I'm gonna explain. The opposite of making others sad is making them happy and that is what you should do. Go after making people smile if they're in a cage get them out, like the saying goes fake it till you make it. Doing this will get you friends and people to talk to like it did me. Then those people and friends will give you a hand and pull you out of your cage you just need to take the first step. People don't want to be friends with someone negative but everyone loves positive people because they love to smile and if you give them that of course they'll want to be around you. you just need to go for it. just like anything in life nothing will happen unless you make it happen. Don't harm other people for no reason. And then after you're broken out of your cage you're left with experience a great new version of yourself because this dumb problem is exactly that a dumb problem that is gone now. Because you're awesome.

The way I can say this with in an expression is this. "Dominoes are fun to watch for the first bit, but in the end they just leave a mess." Don't be the first domino don't tip other people over because it just makes a mess we want people but this doesn't help so don't do it. People want positivity and if the mess of dominoes are caused by someone else be the domino that doesn't move be an inch away from falling and then clean the mess up and yes, you can do it don't doubt yourself. A smile is what you need from people that's what will save the Earth and you can be the starting push for positivity. With that I'm gonna go cya next week.

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