Bonds

The connectors of life. These can be broken, made, torn, and mended. These connect more than just atoms, these connect people and represent what we call relationships. And obviously from the title, these things are bonds. Bonds are very important in everyone's lives, your friends, relatives, husband or wife, children. Bonds connect you and all the people in your life. They keep you together and without them people would fall apart. These bonds have a lot to do with life and how they can be manipulated. The people on the other side of that bond, what relationships can be manipulated in what way, and who you should have bonds with. That's what I wanna talk about with you today, and I'm excited this was what I chose at night. There's a lot of people you can have bonds with. You start with your parents, then relatives, and then you go to school and start meeting your first few friends. Your parents are obviously very important without them you wouldn't be here, and being alive is a great thing because if you play your cards right (get it because I play with cards), you can go so far you just need the right mindset and fuel. And none of that can happen without your parents. Then your relatives, these are people that know you from your parents, they will talk to you in a way that they won't talk to others, attempting to belittle you because of their ignorance. Don't let them push you around, don't let them talk like they're above you or better than you. But also don't get mad at them, play with them, they are nothing more than ignorant people that think they know things, and the best way to give them a good ol' middle finger is to show them what you are, not tell them. Then we have the people that not everyone has but needs. Friends, these are people that can hurt you and manipulate you if you don't find the right ones. Or they could be some of the best support and happiness in your life. All of these people have bonds connected back to you, and if they do anything to that bond it will affect you in a good way or bad way. So what can these people do and how will it affect you, and how do you deal with how they affect you. Here your parents and relatives fall under the same category, they either will support you in what you wanna do, or they will discourage you. It feels amazing when people who share your blood encourage you and believe in you, take that encouragement and use it. Now there are people who will not support you in what you are trying to achieve. It really hurts to be affected by people who you are genetically attached too, but you can't let them affect you as I said earlier, don't talk to the people who don't support you, look at them smile and SHOW them you can, don't tell them. Then there are the friends. Friends as I said can be some of the best support in your life. They know why you wanna do what you wanna do, and will support you because they know how deep your ambition is and will help you with whatever you need help with, but sometimes friends will tell you not to do something and it's not always because they don't want you to achieve great things, but are trying to protect you from failing, just know which of your friends are trying to protect you and which are trying to hold you back. And if someone is trying to hold you back, or is holding you back, cut them off. They are toxic to your life and you don't need that. Those people that are holding you back will come back one day and try to be included in your success, don't let them back in, not many people in this world will ever deserve a second chance. Once you clean toxic up, don't ever let it find a way back ever again. Who should be the people you confide to and talk to? Well you should talk to your parents about a lot of things in your life, because more times than not if you talk to them they will understand why you are doing what you are and a lot of the times they don't support you because they don't know "why". Many of your relatives will talk to you different than they would to their own friends, mostly your cousins. Yet in the mix there will be someone in there you can keep in touch with and let into your life, having someone you are biologically attached to is a great thing to have. Now there's all the friends. First off you should have friends that are above you that are where you want to be, you should have friends that are at the same point as you, and you should have friends who are under you that you can help. That is the law of 33%, and that other 1% you take that time and put it into yourself. Now you should keep your circle pretty small, make sure your circle is very close and small, not big and spread out. The people that are in big circles encounter many people who are fake who are not really trying to support you, if your squad is small and tight, you will all be smarter, and work better. If there's to many people you have to much to keep track of and your brain can't work to better yourself and a few people when it has to better 40 others. The less people, the less snakes you'll run into, there won't be as many people talking behind your back trying to harm you, people that are only friends with you to better themselves. Then there's one more very intense bond. Love. All I have to say for love is this. Love is like a candle flame, it starts very bright, it flickers, if you put in work or blow on it, it will shine brighter, but in the end it will always go out. Those are bonds. They can hurt a person or take them very far in life. People can break bonds and leave, or they can tighten them and bring you closer together. You have friends, relatives, and parents and family. These people can either help you and come with you on your journey or just yell at you while you walk ahead of them and get to where you want to get. Then you will find a select few people to be beside you on the way to the destination. Make sure you know who you are forming bonds with, because many people will tear them and leave, and man does it hurt. But this is gonna happen to everyone so always be prepared for someone to show their true colors. As long as you stay true and stay you. You won't have to be the one to hurt someone. Original

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