Peers

We all have peers, weather it's at work, school or home, you have people above you under you, or equal to you where you are. There's a lot of different type of people in this world and some people are just not worth time. With that I wanna talk about types of people and why they are how they are, then a specific type of person called fake, and I wanna talk about you, being amazing. Let's get to it. Out of seven and a half billion people on the earth there's a lot of different people. There are happy ones, energetic uplifting people. And and try to bring people down pessimistic. These are the main two groups I want to talk about today. Let's start with the positive people, why are these people so positive all the time? The first answer is they were raised and brought up to be nice and make people happy their parents wanted them to be good people. Then there are people who just want to make people smile, their happiness comes from other peoples happiness. Then there is one more side of this, a deeper side, the fake smiles. These are people who are sad don't have the best of lives and are going through some problems, but wake up and don't want to make other people sad or want attention to their problems, so they go and are optimistic people. I've carried a fake smile for a long time in my life and still barley do. If you find one of these people because they slip up in their act, help them, talk to them. Because all they really need is a real friend, a shoulder to cry on, someone there to talk to. Then on the other side of the spectrum there are people like this, but don't have a fake smile. They openly put their problems out and really make other people sad (I've talked about this in my writing "Miseries Partner"). These people, while it's hard, also need a person to talk to weather they admit it or not. Then some of the sad people are quiet and keep to themselves. They don't' wanna cause anything but don't have the will to put on a fake smile. These are the two main types of people to me, while their are many many more types of people these are the two main groups you'll see in life. Other ones include druggies, violent people, etc. They just grew up and got influenced in the wrong way. Now there are a special group of people who are called fake or snakes. These people are people who pretend to be your friend but the key word is pretend, they really don't like you or just don't care about you. They only hang out with you because their friends do, or because of their own gain. Social status, money, etc. These aren't people who you should hang out with, and sometimes it's hard to find them the one factor will always be time. Time is like a strainer it filters real from fake, good from bad. But once you find these people, don't let them keep stepping on you. Cut ties with them as quick as you can because they are poison, they are the toxic in your life. I have a friend who has fake friends and I keep saying to cut them off but she won't listen. They hurt her and really poison her life. Now when these people start showing their true colors, talking behind your back or anything like that, don't let it get to you, you're better than that and better than them. These people are a waste of time and they really don't matter and are irrelevant to your life, don't let them step on you. You really are amazing I don't know how often you get told that, but it's true. We all do some not so amazing sometimes, but at the end of the day you have a good heart and mind. And as I said you are better than the people that try to hurt you, they are under you don't let them above you taking control of you. Don't listen to other peoples lies about you because you know yourself better than anyone don't let anyone tell you what you are and what you aren't. With that you get compliments too. take compliments and be happy, throw away insults. Now remember there's a line between self confidence and arrogance. Don't let compliments take over your good heart, just because you are better than someone doesn't mean you need to tell them that, or rub it in. Those fake friends I talked about, don't argue with them or say anything bad to them, just lean back smooth and deal a smile and walk away. Because arguing with a fool makes you nothing but a fool. But there's nothing wrong with waking up now and then looking at the mirror and saying "man I look good today". With that you can deal with a lot of people in this world. You know who is who and why they do what they do, find the snakes and cut em' off, then tell yourself you are amazing, but don't grow arrogant off of it. Go to work with your back straight looking forward and walk in there like you own the place. Then you will have respect and good relationships with your peers. Just because you don't like someone don't tell them that try to be nice to them, or avoid them, never give anyone the look of disgust. With that, cya.

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