Criticize Yourself

I don’t lie in these writings and lemme tell you, this title took me forever to come up with. I honestly didn’t know what deep clickbait title to come up with. Lol, even though this isn’t yellow journalism so lemme actually get to the topic. I’m a very outgoing weird person and at this fourteen year old age I do mostly what I think is right and what I want to do. And my parents… yea they don’t like that, but it’s who I am they’re my parents they love me (I think lol). But obviously many adults and other people have their opinions about me and I don’t give a single crap about what they say or think. You shouldn’t care what others say, you should be tougher on yourself than anyone else, dealing with it and controlling it.

You know a lot of people probably talk behind my back. Now they might talk good about me lol I love my school chill guys. And that’s life people are gonna talk behind your back, there’s two things you can do. Either get offended and triggered, start drama or get sad about it, or obviously just not give a single crap. I’m not gonna tell you what to do you’re you and, there’s only one you so you’re the best. But I will advise you to go with the second choice and here’s why. Now if people are talking behind your back there’ a reason they’re behind you. A lot of the time this person is someone irrelevant just like what they’re saying about you. But let’s say it is someone you thought you could trust or a “fake friend” or a snake as some people say. Then what does it matter they’re not your friend anymore and what they’re saying probably will just wash away unless of course you respond to it. So don’t respond to it just take it as a joke. My whole goal at the moment in life is to make people laugh. If someone makes a joke about me I take the joke and make it my own and make people laugh. Then the irrelevant attention hog loses his attention and then he’s just on the ground alone. But me being me, my stupid conscience will have me put out a hand to that irrelevant kid and make them laugh too because holding a grudge is stupid. But that’s another topic. But you should turn rumors and insults and turn them into your own joke and be calm about it because being hot headed does nothing except take years from your life.

Even with all the people that talk about me I criticize myself more than anyone. Not like “kill yourself you worthless excuse for a human”. Yea don’t do that then, in plain words you’re stupid. But motivate yourself with it. Like tease yourself “you can’t do it”. Because when I here that… you better believe I’m gonna do whatever the crap it is. I don’t really put myself down but doubt is what motivates me. When someone says I can’t I can and I will. And you should wire your brain like that because it’s great turning negativity into fuel. When I criticize myself it helps me to achieve a goal and it is something that helps me get there. Know how to prove people wrong because the satisfaction level is over 9000. If I put myself down I have a reason to work up because I can work up and you should be able to aswell. Because that’s a very good skill. “We all know that if you’re at rock bottom the only way to go is up. But not everyone knows how to go up.”-(quote I just made up). It’s about conviction and will. You have to work hard to get up. You have to want to get up a lot because if you don’t truly want to and don’t understand the opportunity you have to go back up you won’t be able to.

Dealing with criticism isn’t an easy thing at the beginning. It was hard of course knowing people were saying bad things about me and it made me feel bad as it would for other people. But then I asked myself “why do I feel bad”. And I couldn’t find a feasible answer. Again if it was a friend then I see why you would. Someone betrayed your trust that’s not something to be forgiven. And again you should forget about it if you make it a big deal it will be a big deal lol. But if you can find a good reason to why you should feel bad what people think about you please tell me what the reason is and I’ll talk to you about it. Again I’m fourteen you might have more experience than I do so we’ll see what answer you can give me. If it’s shallow like “people are saying something not true about you”. Then I won’t respond that means it’s irrelevant and again turn it into a joke. And if you wanna say that STOP BEING A PESSIMIST THAT’S NOT WHY I WRITE THESE. But still there are more dumb answers and hopefully you have a good one if you will talk to me about it lol.

In the end of all of this you should know how to give yourself constructive ish criticism lol. Why you shouldn’t care about what people say and how to turn it in your favor. And yea that’s all thanks for reading this. It doesn’t matter what anyone says about you there IS only one you and will always be so be happy and be you it doesn’t matter what anyone says it doesn’t make you worse than anyone because you are the best. Take it from me :D I don’t lie. Hope to cya next week and bye. Gimme that feedback!

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