Connections

Humans have a need for other humans, that just how we were made. Everyone that says they are lonely, everyone who tries to isolate themselves, they want people, and most of them have people no matter how much they try to deny it. We all have connections, we need to make more connections by being outgoing, and we just need to talk more. As people we have connections with other people since we are born. Family, friends, and acquaintances, these are all people we have some sort of connection with. These connections help us get out thoughts, feelings, emotions, and more by just having ears, it's a great feeling talking to people. So first off let's talk about a human's need for people. While I was making the thumbnail for this writing, I kept trying to find people to talk to me while I wrote, I just had this sudden urge to talk to someone, my heart panged for someone. Now I am in a predicament because well, it's 4 in the morning no one's awake lol, but that's just proof that we need other people in our life, it's natural.

Now I'm going to tell you to be outgoing. Talk to people, random people at the store, people you don't know at school, someone sitting on the same bench as you, beside you on the bus, plane, or train just talk to people. Being energetic and being able to talk to people shows you're headstrong and self-confident you know you can talk to people and lead a good conversation, of course sometimes awkward questions start the best conversations. Now what if you don't have that self confidence, what if you aren't courageous enough to talk to people. Number one don't be afraid of other people, you are the same, you have a brain and a heart, these things make you able to communicate and make wise choices. Second trust yourself, you're not stupid, you are not going to talk to some murderer. Third, self-confidence, go in front of a mirror and get to know yourself, look deep inside your heart, soul, and brain and find every single flaw, every single strength, and just everything about your personality, and everything you do and say. If you find things you don't like then change. Once you come to terms with it, you have self-confidence, knowing every single one of your traits, and not caring what anyone else says because no one knows you, better than you. With that you can talk to anyone. If you talk to a lot of people, you will find a lot of amazing people, you will also just as likely find a bunch of people you don't like, but that's fine. Just hold onto your temper and deal with them, you'll never see them again. On the other hand if you meet someone amazing, you just found a new friend. When you randomly talk to people out in public, and they know nothing about you, then chances are that they aren't fake, they're legit awesome people, and someone you want by your side. Friends should always push you to do your best, motivate you to go farther than you think you can, and they should always, no matter how much it hurts you, be honest. Only a true friend can always tell you the blunt truth. And with the people you don't like, you can learn something from them, from what they say and what they do, what kind of person they are. You can get information on other people that will possibly be like that and you will be better prepared to deal with those people. So by talking to people, you can find potential amazing friends, and if it doesn't work out just cut the tie, extra weight only makes you drown, or you will learn about how to deal with people whose personality doesn't mesh with yours. So that's how it is. We as people need other people, it gives us happiness, relief, and calmness, we all have a few people from day one, but gain more shortly. We all need to be more outgoing, more self-confident, and more energetic. And if we do that we will find amazing people to come with us through life, or bad people who can teach us what friends can't. To be honest I wrote this last week but is was so long I decided to turn it into it's own writing so now I have to write another writing for last week haha good problems. Original

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