Miseries Partner Pt. 2
- Mashnoor K.
- Oct 6, 2018
- 4 min read
Updated: Jan 21, 2019
This is the first part two post I'll be making, I'm excited. I don't know why, but I've put this off for very long, besides that, let's get into this. I read over my post two years ago, and came across a few things. First, I was an idiot, great, second, I said a few things that I think to be false now, and said a few things very nesciently. In this post I will go over the things I said, as well as hopefully re-express the concept, "miseries partner." The first few things I want to clear up is, I said, "the human brain and heart are not things that can be explained by science." This is not true. I recant that statement; the heart especially can be, and pretty much, has been explained by science, it's a red thing that pumps blood. The brain can be explained by science, but we're learning more every day, so we're getting there. The second thing I said is, "I am not a psychologist." This was, and still is true, however I guess I didn't understand the concept of research two years ago, seems like I learned something over the past 730.5 plus, days. With the part of me not being a psychologist said, in the post, "Miseries Partner." I wrote a lot about loneliness. At the time, again, it doesn't seem I did much research, and said this is my philosophy, about the things I stated concerning loneliness, but here I am today and I can confirm with solid assurance. Loneliness is one of the worst things that can occur to a human being. Chronic loneliness has been shown to increase chances of premature death by fourteen percent, raise blood pressure, and weaken the immune system. Yeah, loneliness is pretty bad, this is't my philosophy, anymore. Going back to philosophy however, no one wishes to be lonely--at least not all the time, we all need some alone time of course--however we seem to get sucked into believing, and tricking ourselves into thinking that we are all alone in life, in certain situations and occurrences. That's a topic for another day though, so I'll leave it at that. Now I will try and concisely go over the concept of, "miseries partner." First, allow me to express why this was the first concept I made a part two of. A few weeks ago something transpired in my life that caused me pain, and for this I thought of this concept I drew up a long ago, "miseries partner." I, even with the pain, loneliness, and hurt I felt, had to go to school, and keep presenting myself in front of others. Those weeks that I felt pain in me... Those were the most overtly positive weeks that I've ever had in a long time. I spread as much positive energy as I possibly could. I texted many people asking them how they were, and if they would like advice, or help, or simple opinions from me, I told people I loved them, I told people I believed in them, and I meant it. All of it, I meant it. In spreading this positivity in my time of pain I felt, first off better, this definitely helped facilitate my healing; but it also made me feel enlightened. All the negative energy within me, I was soliciting positive energy from others to put into the universe and balance the negativity that I put into the universe, and that helped me feel like the way I'm feeling is ok, and I'm not just moping around, I'm doing what I can to maintain balance in the universe and in, and around myself. With that story said, miseries partner is the concept that: when you are miserable, when you have negative energy within you, you tend to spread that negative energy in order to bring other people to the place in which you are at that time, and I said previously that this was to feel less lonely and, "bring people to your level with you," or something along those lines. I think there might be some truth to that, however I will leave that out of this one, just for the sake of a more solid concept. Anyways, the moral of this concept is: spreading negative energy while there is negative energy in you is natural, it happens, when it overflows inside you, it spills out into your words, and other overt actions. You should avoid this however; because when you avoid it, and spread positivity instead, it will facilitate your healing, as well as make yourself feel less guilty for the negativity in you, that may be felt by other people intuitively--like I stated in "Energy" people will feel your energy--and you'll be left with an enlightened feeling. This is possible, like I said, I did it for awhile, until I felt stable once again, and the majority of the pain subsided. With all of that said, I'll put in this peroration what I wrote in the last "Miseries Partner." Dominoes are fun to watch, until it's over and you're left with a mess. Spreading your negative energy, causing someone else to spread negative energy and so on... maybe seeing things topple is entertaining. Once everything is said and done though you are left with a mess. Don't be the first domino of the sequence, and if someone is trying to spread their negativity on you, let them know they are not alone, solace them, and be the domino that's placed a little too far ahead and doesn't get toppled. Stop the mess where it is. You can do this, and it's not as hard as you'd think. Thanks for reading this, I really enjoyed this part two, especially the format, I hope to do more soon, however that's all for today. Have an outstanding week, I'll see you the next, peace. Original
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